Fixed bug caused by me forgetting what types im using (invites appearing at the bottom of the list instead of the top when priority sorting was off)

i was confused when a room with me and two friends showed as "user1" and
3 others.

fixes #30

This may increase the db size by a factor of 1000 in the worst case and
it will need some fixes, when we decide to not show some events in the
timeline, but it should work for now.

Only consider the room as unread, if there is a message in the room and
only consider message and sticker events as messages.

fixes #65

This may still not raise the application correctly on some WMs, because
they don't allow disturbing the user with windows popping up. I don't
think we want to work around that.

fixes #84
fixes #113

fixes #97
fixes #51

removed from:
 - emoji panel scrollbars
 - emoji category labels
 - splitter image handles
 - textfield setTextColor impl

small change to the category separator label for better contrast /
readability in dark mode.

removed setTextColor completely from TextField. Doesn't appear to be in
use anywhere, and focus going more toward qss themeing from qproperty
setting.

fixes #126

setStyleSheet was overriding default tooltip theme from the system,
causing themes like Breeze to render white text on a grey bg for
tooltips. Tooltips now render default for the system theme everywhere.

set a theme matching color on the dark theme comboboxes.

fixes #118