remove setStyleSheet calls directly from widget code

removed from:
 - emoji panel scrollbars
 - emoji category labels
 - splitter image handles
 - textfield setTextColor impl

small change to the category separator label for better contrast /
readability in dark mode.

removed setTextColor completely from TextField. Doesn't appear to be in
use anywhere, and focus going more toward qss themeing from qproperty
setting.