We share all keys with our devices and ones created by us to other
users.

Does not fix the read status yet, for that we need to compare read
receipts for all events after the last visible event.

We don't get notified for every message. Sometimes we only get a read
receipt for the newest message, which means old read receipts accumulate
in the database. This least to some considerable CPU overhead, when
checking if the timeline should be notified for new read receipts.
Instead just always notify, since that has far less overhead in the
worst case and doesn't need complicated cache cleanup.

The old pending_receipts db is not removed for now. It should still have
minimal storage overhead and we don't have a good mechanism for cache
format upgrades atm.

Mentions are now loaded from the cache instead of
directly from the web request.  Mentions are also
properly saved to the cache now (instead of as empty
strings).  Still lots of tweaks left on this feature.