While it does improve performance a bit, it is simply bad for most
distributions, since they don't know and probably don't want to
recompile Nheko. So default it to off. Anyone who wants it can still
toggle it on and it is almost no maintenance cost.

May fix #213

This is necessary to support having a picker within QML.
Eventually, this should replace the existing widget-based one.

closes #94

Fixes #166

fixes #124

This may still not raise the application correctly on some WMs, because
they don't allow disturbing the user with windows popping up. I don't
think we want to work around that.

fixes #84
fixes #113

fixes #97
fixes #51